Houston’s Octogenarian Grand Dame Powers The Opera Ball To a Record $2 Million Night — Don’t Doubt Margaret Alkek Williams
Going Back To 1983 To Soar Even Higher
BY Shelby Hodge // 04.07.25Patrick Summers, Margaret Alkek Williams, Khori Dastoor at the Houston Grand Opera 'Love Is in the Air' gala (Photo by Michelle Watson)
Despite her petite stature, the age-defying octogenarian Margaret Alkek Williams is a grande dame of great determination. So it was no surprise that when she chaired Houston Grand Opera’s “Love Is in the Air” gala, she surpassed her goal of raising $2 million.
With the surprise addition of legendary mezzo-soprano Frederica von Stade to the program, this Houston evening proved to be a resounding success.

Back in the day, Williams chaired her share of galas but of late she has enjoyed the role of honoree at fundraisers across the cultural landscape. As she shared on this night, she chaired the 1983 and 2014 HGO galas. When the company approached her for a redux, she accepted, telling PaperCity this was absolutely her last spin in the gala chair spotlight.
“Margaret, your commitment to Houston Grand Opera is legendary,” HGO general director and CEO Khori Dastoor said from the podium. “Your passion for the arts has come to define our city. We are grateful for your leadership, your heart, your boundless generosity and, of course, your impeccable taste.
“Thank you for your tireless efforts to ensure the success of this evening.”

Decor for the romantic white-tie-and-tails soirée centered on profusions of flowers as The Events Company swathed tabletops, stages, entry ways and overhead trestles with every flower imaginable. Swanning through the floral landscape of Wortham Theater Center‘s Grand Foyer, more than 450 partygoers, patrons and opera lovers were in for a musical treat.
Typically, Houston Grand Opera does not name an honoree for its galas as that distinction is reserved, as Dastoor noted “for those individuals who have profoundly altered the trajectory of our institution.” On this evening, the first in 16 years, that glory was bestowed on Dian and Harlan Stai, who have been generous and stalwart HGO supporters for 35 years.

In their honor and to the delight of opera enthusiasts attending, von Stade, who has performed with Houston Grand Opera more than a dozen times since 1973, was introduced as surprise entertainment for the Stais, whom she holds in deep affection.
With HGO artistic and music director Patrick Summers at the baby grand piano, von Stade sang Steven Sondheim’s “Send in the Clowns.” It was a beautiful and moving presentation with the two close friends — Summers and “Flicka” — performing on a secondary stage that was flanked by a parapet of fresh flowers.

City Kitchen did its expected culinary magic with the menu, providing fuel for dancing to the tunes of The Party Feels.
PC Seen: Ann and Karl Stern, Claire Liu, Anna Dean, Anne and Albert Chao, Allyson and Theodore Pritchett, Aaron and Sarah Stai, Drs. Rachel and Warren Ellsworth, Astley Blair, Betty and Jesse Tutor, Molly and Jim Crownover, Cynthia and Tony Petrello, Melissa and Sam Stubbs, Celina Hellmund, Teresa and José Ivo, Hallie Vanderhider, Alicia Smith, Brigitte Kalai, Tara and David Wuthrich, Maria and Omar Alaoui, and Penny and Paul Loyd.